I see one webpage has my blog on the links list. But the person who wrote the page calls me a "FEMALE smoker." For any newbie lurkers, I hate to burst your bubble. But I'm a man. Although I certainly like women who are SERIOUS smokers. A serious smoker is one who enjoys smoking. And he/she has no intentions of quitting at any point in his./her life.
I do understand how "Jay" is also a girl's name in other countries. But this Jay is all man.